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Try to be the perfect Gentleman.

Being the perfect gentleman is easier than people make it seem. It is especially easy when it comes to simple tasks like holding the door open for people, saying excuse me when you knudge another person, or even just offering assistance to a person in need. Where most men seem to have trouble maintaining their wholesome acts is around women. Women are the most complicated beings on earth. they have abilities to shift and change situations around in their heads and play things out like they had expected and planned. That is how women are good at getting men caught up. Yet if the man were to try and be that perfect gentleman, the woman would fall back and genuinely feel there is no second guess to this one. BUT, since it is so easy for men to fall in that trap women set, the gentleman in them flies out the window and they feel that as they try and be a gentleman, they feel vulnerable. The man would help the woman in any way possible: take off her coat, pull up her seat, open the building or car door for her, compliment her (even though, in reality, she gets compliments all the time), understand her limits and pet peeves, and many little things that please her instead of annoying her. Men try their best in the beginning, yet fall short towards the relationships, and engagements, and marraiges. That perfect gentleman seems to start fading, because they feel they dont need to be that much of a perfect gentleman anymore. they have what they wanted now. THey can take it easy and not have to "work so hard anymore". As a punishing result, the woman sees that he's lagging in his interest in her now, and questions herself, am I still attrctive to him?, does he appreciate me as much as before?, why doesnt he treat even better now that we are together?, why are things between us suddenly becoming lazier?

Im will leave the rest of the scenario to whoevery would like to interpret what happens next to that PERFECT GENTLEMAN.


~~~~Omodele Evan~~~~

Realization

I have become the cause of my families early financial issues. Morehouse College is the college I attend and I'm enjoying the hell out of it. It's a perfect match when it comes to a school that fits me, this school is the most compatible. I am blessed and thankful for the people that have helped me get here, but I should not have needed them. I could have got here, on my own accord throughout my high school education.

The Golden KEY. High School was leading me to that golden key from the beginning. Education was feeding me directions on how to get through the mountains, rivers, jungles, deserts and turmoil and to that Golden KEY. That Golden KEY should have been my easy access to the LOCK that is Morehouse College. That LOCK could only accept two different keys. That Golden KEY or the other dirty-bronze KEY. Instead of achieving that Golden KEY, I achieved that dirty-bronze KEY. The dirty-bronze KEY. I found it in the crust and corner of my turmoil of struggle in high school. As I could barely get by in my classes in high school, I could barely find myself in a prestigious college like Morehouse College.

1. The Golden KEY: (what should have happened.)

• Work hard on assignments
• Study thoroughly for exams
• Procrastination should be non-existent
  
• Knowledge becomes inevitable
• Graduation with top-notch grade results.
• Academic Scholarships.
• Parental happiness, money saved for other siblings and rest of family.
  
• Acceptance of the Golden KEY.

2. The dirty-bronze KEY: (what really happened.)

• Occasional strong work ethic
• Many nights of last minute preparation
• Procrastination is almost second nature
• Knowledge is occasionally there, yet it's more memorized than learned.
• Graduation with average grade results.
• Denial of Golden KEY.
• No Scholarships.
• More money out of my parents pocket...unhappy/ disappointed.
  
• Appeal for second KEY = dirty-bronze KEY
• Apply same steps (above) as if you were going for The Golden KEY in summer progam.
• Letters of recommendations
• Knowing people and talking with people on attaining acceptance
• Receive Acceptance of the dirty-bronze KEY.
• Heavy Loans, and high tuition.
  

Number 2. was the long and complicated steps I took to get into my college. It was not worth it. I got what I wanted, but now my parents have money issues because of my choice to attain the dirty-bronze KEY.



I PRAY for my future educational judgments; that i make the smart and right ones. My parents know I can do it. I know i can do it. I just need to prove it to REALITY.

~~~~Omodele Evan~~~~