Being the perfect gentleman is easier than people make it seem. It is especially easy when it comes to simple tasks like holding the door open for people, saying excuse me when you knudge another person, or even just offering assistance to a person in need. Where most men seem to have trouble maintaining their wholesome acts is around women. Women are the most complicated beings on earth. they have abilities to shift and change situations around in their heads and play things out like they had expected and planned. That is how women are good at getting men caught up. Yet if the man were to try and be that perfect gentleman, the woman would fall back and genuinely feel there is no second guess to this one. BUT, since it is so easy for men to fall in that trap women set, the gentleman in them flies out the window and they feel that as they try and be a gentleman, they feel vulnerable. The man would help the woman in any way possible: take off her coat, pull up her seat, open the building or car door for her, compliment her (even though, in reality, she gets compliments all the time), understand her limits and pet peeves, and many little things that please her instead of annoying her. Men try their best in the beginning, yet fall short towards the relationships, and engagements, and marraiges. That perfect gentleman seems to start fading, because they feel they dont need to be that much of a perfect gentleman anymore. they have what they wanted now. THey can take it easy and not have to "work so hard anymore". As a punishing result, the woman sees that he's lagging in his interest in her now, and questions herself, am I still attrctive to him?, does he appreciate me as much as before?, why doesnt he treat even better now that we are together?, why are things between us suddenly becoming lazier?
Im will leave the rest of the scenario to whoevery would like to interpret what happens next to that PERFECT GENTLEMAN.
~~~~Omodele Evan~~~~
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